When I was assorting snaps afterward n saw this snap again, It reminded me of my school days, my school friends...I remained friends with few of them n lost a few in between..haven't talked to the bested of friends in ages..some who I never talked in school became a chat buddies now(yes chat buddies are serious business)..Funny thing!! this friendship...
When we were in school we had best friends..Friends Forever.No matter what happened we'll remain friends...hours of endless chatter, gossip, fun, stupid secrets which at tym felt so important...
With time, as we get older faces fade, memories and names are forgotten...
Dynamics of friendship changes with time, situation and place...Life affects friendships ~ we get married, have children, move to different city, other country, get new job, loose a job, join some new course for further studies..
It needs to evolve with all of these..You cannot assume it will remain the same..You cannot remain sad and bitter at lost of one..there's always reason behind it...You keep adding friends to your friends list on FB...some remain acquaintance and some acquaintances become best friends...
I believe I have been blessed with wonderful friends ~ from a wicked brother(my first friend) to my mum(all tym favorite one) to school friends(we still chat n gossip like oll times) to college/work friends to relatives(sisters n sister-in-laws) to my husband's friends(who hv become mine too) to neighbors(cum friends) to my newest best friend (my husband - my 2 am friend)...best friend now sounds sooo cheesy..:D..These are the ones who have been present with me through the time @ different phases...n will be there for me whenever I need them, no questions asked...
Every friendship no matter how fleeting it was adds depth and color to our life..We are made up of all the influences around us, friendship being most important..Some leave a deep impact, some become fond memories..
So to memories and friendship...
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